Why I Miss Iran: A Journey Through Culture, History, And Heart

Annamae Terry DDS 22 Jun 2025

There are places in the world that etch themselves onto your soul, leaving an indelible mark that calls you back, even from afar. For me, that place is Iran. While life has taken me on different paths and to different shores, a profound and undeniable yearning has recently taken root within me, a deep and heartfelt sentiment that makes me say, "I miss Iran."

It’s a complex emotion, not born of naiveté or a blindness to challenges, but rather a profound appreciation for the vibrant tapestry of a land rich in heritage, natural beauty, and an unparalleled human spirit. This longing isn't just for a geographical location; it's for the very essence of a culture that has shaped who I am and continues to resonate deeply within my being.

The Unspoken Longing: Why I Miss Iran
A Tapestry of Pride: Culture, History, and Nature
Shiraz: A Glimpse into Organic Living
The Resurgence of Iranian Beauty: A Modern Narrative
The Human Connection: Organic Life and Community
Navigating Complexities: A Balanced Perspective
The Enduring Spirit of Iranian Women
Why I Miss Iran: More Than Just a Place

The Unspoken Longing: Why I Miss Iran

Recently, a powerful wave of nostalgia has washed over me, an unexpected but persistent yearning for my homeland. It's a feeling that has intensified, making me acutely aware of how much I miss Iran. This isn't just about missing a place; it's about missing a feeling, a way of life that, despite its complexities, holds a unique charm. The memories are vivid: the aroma of saffron and rosewater, the echoing calls from ancient mosques, the warmth of family gatherings, and the sheer vibrancy of daily life. This longing is a testament to the profound impact Iran has had on my identity, weaving itself into the very fabric of my being.

I understand that Iran, like any nation, isn't a perfect country. No place on Earth is without its challenges, its internal struggles, or its areas for improvement. Yet, my affection for it transcends these imperfections. It stems from a deep-seated love for its rich tapestry of culture, its millennia-old history, its exquisite culinary traditions, and its breathtaking natural landscapes. These are the elements that evoke a profound sense of pride in my roots, a connection to something ancient and enduring that continues to shape the modern world in subtle yet significant ways.

A Tapestry of Pride: Culture, History, and Nature

What makes me truly proud of my Iranian heritage are the pillars of Persian culture, history, food, and nature. Persian culture is a living, breathing entity, expressed in its poetry, music, art, and the intricate designs of its carpets. From Rumi's mystical verses to Hafez's lyrical odes, Iranian literature offers a window into the soul, filled with wisdom, love, and philosophical depth. The music, with its haunting melodies and rhythmic complexities, tells stories of joy and sorrow, echoing through generations. The art, whether in miniature paintings or the vibrant tiles of mosques, showcases an aesthetic sensibility that is both refined and deeply spiritual.

The history of Iran is a grand narrative spanning thousands of years, from the mighty Achaemenid Empire that stretched across three continents to the glorious Safavid era that left behind architectural marvels like Isfahan's Naqsh-e Jahan Square. Walking through Persepolis, the ancient capital of the Persian Empire, is an awe-inspiring experience, connecting you directly to a civilization that shaped the course of human history. These historical sites are not just ruins; they are monuments to human ingenuity, resilience, and artistic achievement, reminding me of the enduring legacy of this land.

And then there's the food. Oh, the food! Iranian cuisine is a symphony of flavors, a delicate balance of sweet and sour, fragrant herbs, and aromatic spices. From the comforting warmth of Ghormeh Sabzi, a herb stew, to the succulent skewers of Chelow Kabob, every dish tells a story. The use of saffron, pistachios, and pomegranates is ubiquitous, transforming simple ingredients into culinary masterpieces. Sharing a meal in Iran is more than just eating; it's a communal experience, a ritual of hospitality and connection that nourishes both body and soul. The simple act of preparing and sharing these meals is something I miss Iran for deeply.

Beyond the man-made wonders, Iran's nature is astonishingly diverse. From the snow-capped peaks of the Alborz mountains, perfect for skiing, to the lush Caspian Sea coast, resembling a verdant paradise, and the vast, silent beauty of the central deserts, the country offers a spectrum of landscapes. The vibrant colors of autumn in the forests, the fragrant orange blossoms in spring, and the stark beauty of its salt lakes are all etched in my memory. This natural beauty provides a profound sense of peace and connection to the earth, a grounding force that is hard to replicate elsewhere.

Shiraz: A Glimpse into Organic Living

Among the many cities that hold a special place in my heart, Shiraz stands out. It's where some of my relatives live, and its unique vibe is something I truly cherish. Shiraz is known as the city of poets, gardens, and nightingales. The air there seems to carry the scent of roses and the whispers of ancient verses. The Eram Garden, with its stunning architecture and fragrant flowers, offers a serene escape, while the Nasir al-Mulk Mosque, also known as the Pink Mosque, transforms into a kaleidoscope of colors as the morning sun streams through its stained-glass windows.

What truly sets Shiraz, and indeed much of Iran, apart is the organic, natural, and refreshingly affordable way of life. There's a palpable sense of community, where neighbors know each other, and interactions are genuine. The markets overflow with fresh, locally sourced produce, often sold directly by farmers. Life moves at a different pace, less driven by the relentless rush of modern consumerism and more by the rhythm of human connection and tradition. This organic quality extends to daily interactions; conversations feel more sincere, and hospitality is not just a custom but an ingrained way of being.

The affordability of life in Iran also contributes to this sense of ease. High-quality food, fresh produce, and even experiences are often accessible without the exorbitant costs seen in many Western countries. This allows for a focus on living, on family, and on cultural pursuits rather than a constant struggle with expenses. This combination of natural living, genuine human connection, and affordability creates an atmosphere that is deeply comforting and, frankly, something I miss Iran for immensely.

The Resurgence of Iranian Beauty: A Modern Narrative

Beyond the traditional aspects, Iran's narrative is also evolving, with modern expressions of its rich heritage. One fascinating aspect that has recently re-emerged is the tradition of beauty pageants, showcasing the beauty, resilience, and intellect of Iranian women. While the concept of celebrating beauty has ancient roots in Persia, its modern manifestation has seen a significant journey.

Miss Grand Iran: A Historical Perspective

The tradition of beauty pageants in Persia dates back centuries, with roots in ancient customs that celebrated women’s beauty and grace. In the modern era, the first organized beauty contests emerged in the early 20th century, with the establishment of the Miss Iran pageant in 1963. This era saw women from Iran participating in international competitions, bringing a unique blend of Persian elegance to the global stage.

However, after the Iranian Revolution, the teen beauty pageant was largely scrapped for obvious reasons, leading to a decades-long hiatus in public, organized competitions within the country. The concept of beauty pageants, as understood in the West, diverged significantly from the new societal norms. Yet, the spirit of showcasing Iranian women's beauty and talent persisted.

In 2013, an organization took the initiative to revive the Persian beauty pageant, albeit as a virtual competition, selecting Miss Iran representatives for international stages. This marked a significant step in re-establishing Iran's presence in global beauty contests. Miss Grand Iran is a national beauty pageant title awarded to Iranian representatives competing at the Miss Grand International contest [1][2][3]. The title was first awarded in 2014 to Bahareh Heidari, the winner of Miss Iran 2013, who then competed at Miss Grand International 2014 in Thailand [1]. Although she was unplaced, her participation was a symbolic return to the international stage, demonstrating the enduring aspiration to represent Iranian identity and beauty globally.

After a decade of success, this organization rebranded the Miss Iran title to Queens of Persia in 2023. This rebranding reflects a broader mission: to highlight intelligent and empowered women who can drive positive change, emphasizing that beauty is not merely superficial but encompasses intellect, character, and the ability to contribute meaningfully to society. The official Instagram page, @missiranorganization, serves as a hub for this movement, guiding "Your Road to International Pageants," founded by @shadi.osmani and @drhimazaker.

The Rebirth: Miss Iran 2023 and Beyond

A significant milestone in this modern narrative was the first Miss Iran awards in decades, which took place on October 21, 2023, in Santa Clara, California, hosted by Payam Javan. This event was not just a beauty contest; it was a powerful celebration of the beauty, resilience, art, and wisdom of Iranian women, particularly those living in the diaspora. Fifteen contestants competed in the final round, showcasing their talents, intelligence, and cultural pride. The event included a detailed introduction to Miss Iran's history, a video segment on Iranian women in history, and performances, including a dance by one of the 2023 participants. A video of the event, capturing the excitement and significance of the evening, is widely available.

While the pageant was celebrated by many as a symbol of progress and cultural pride, it also faced criticism from some quarters, including a website in Iran, highlighting the complex perspectives surrounding such events. Images from Iranian newspaper and magazine clippings, now in the public domain, show the historical context of these pageants, with some images enhanced to adjust color balance, bringing the past to life.

Building on this momentum, the second annual Miss Iran event (دومین دوره رویداد انتخاب دختر شایسته ایران در سال ۲۰۲۴ – ۲۵۸۳) was held on December 1, 2024, in San Jose, California. This ceremony, attended by a distinguished panel of judges and talented participants, continued the tradition of celebrating Iranian womanhood. The selected finalists advanced to the grand celebration night, where the crown of Miss Iran was placed on the chosen winner, marking another chapter in this evolving story of beauty and empowerment.

Mahsa Mohiti Asli: Beauty Beyond Appearance

The winner of the Miss Iran 2023 title, Mahsa Mohiti Asli, embodies the modern vision of Iranian beauty: one that transcends mere appearance. Her self-introduction speaks volumes about her depth and dedication:

"I am Mahsa, mother of two boys. I hold a PhD in Polymer Science and Biomedical Engineering, and I work as a scientist in the pharmaceutical industry. I believe beauty is not just in appearance but also in one’s mind and behavior."

Her profile highlights the emphasis on intellect, professional achievement, and character, aligning perfectly with the rebranded mission of empowering women. This focus on inner qualities, alongside external grace, truly reflects the nuanced understanding of beauty that resonates deeply with Iranian cultural values.

Mahsa Mohiti Asli: Personal & Professional Profile
Category	Detail
Name	Mahsa Mohiti Asli
Title	Miss Iran 2023
Family Status	Mother of two boys
Education	PhD in Polymer Science and Biomedical Engineering
Profession	Scientist in Pharmaceutical Industry
Philosophy	Beauty is not just in appearance but also in one’s mind and behavior.

Queens of Persia 2024: Fatemeh Mozafari

Continuing this narrative of empowered Iranian women, Miss Fatemeh Mozafari has been crowned Queen of Persia 2024. Born in Iran and raised in Australia, she exemplifies a life dedicated to service, creativity, and cultural pride. Fluent in Persian, she actively works to maintain her connection to her roots while embracing a global perspective. Her journey underscores the enduring connection many Iranians in the diaspora feel towards their heritage, seeking to celebrate and preserve it in new and meaningful ways. Her role as Queen of Persia further amplifies the message that Iranian women are multifaceted, capable, and deeply connected to their cultural identity, making the world remember the grace and strength that I miss Iran for.

The Human Connection: Organic Life and Community

Beyond the grand historical sites and the evolving beauty pageants, what truly makes me miss Iran is the profound human connection and the organic rhythm of life. In a world increasingly dominated by digital interactions and fast-paced living, Iran offers a refreshing antidote. Life there feels more grounded, more authentic. Daily routines are intertwined with social interactions, whether it's haggling good-naturedly in the bazaar, sharing tea with a shopkeeper, or engaging in spontaneous conversations with strangers.

The concept of "Taarof," a complex system of politeness and deference, while sometimes challenging for outsiders, speaks to a deep-seated respect and desire to make others feel comfortable and valued. Hospitality is not just a virtue; it's a way of life. Guests are treated with utmost reverence, and sharing food, stories, and laughter is central to social gatherings. This warmth and generosity create a sense of belonging that is incredibly comforting. The emphasis on family and community is paramount; multi-generational households are common, and family ties are strong, providing a robust support system and a sense of continuity.

This organic lifestyle extends to the environment. Many communities still rely on traditional farming methods, and the pace of life encourages a closer relationship with nature. The air often carries the scent of fresh bread from local bakeries, and the sounds of children playing in the streets are a common melody. It's a life where the simple pleasures are cherished, where time seems to slow down just enough for you to appreciate the moment. This genuine, unhurried, and deeply human way of living is a significant part of why I miss Iran so much.

Navigating Complexities: A Balanced Perspective

As I've mentioned, I know Iran isn’t a perfect country. My longing for it is not an endorsement of every aspect of its governance or societal structure. It's crucial to acknowledge that Iran faces its own set of internal and external challenges, and the lives of its people are often marked by complexities that are not always visible from the outside. Discussions around Iran often involve nuanced political and social debates, and different perspectives exist both within the country and among the global Iranian diaspora. This balance is important, as it speaks to a mature understanding of a nation that is both ancient and modern, traditional and evolving.

The feeling of missing Iran can be particularly acute during times of global tension or internal unrest, as highlighted by sentiments like "I miss Iran sm bro I ws supposed to go next Sat n now I can’t I’ve been crying all day," shared by individuals impacted by travel restrictions or geopolitical events. These personal expressions underscore the emotional weight of being separated from one's homeland, especially when circumstances make return difficult or uncertain. My affection for Iran is rooted in its cultural and human essence, an essence that persists despite political currents. It is a love for the land, its people, its history, and its enduring spirit, rather than an uncritical view of its political landscape. This nuanced perspective is essential for truly understanding why someone might miss Iran so deeply, recognizing its beauty and resilience alongside its challenges.

The Enduring Spirit of Iranian Women

Central to the narrative of Iran's resilience and vibrancy is the enduring spirit of Iranian women. Throughout history, they have played pivotal roles, from powerful queens and influential poets to modern-day scientists, artists, and activists. The Miss Iran pageants, in their revived form, are a testament to this spirit, celebrating not just physical beauty but also the intelligence, strength, and cultural wisdom that define Iranian women. These events highlight their ability to navigate complex realities while upholding their heritage and striving for progress.

From the historical figures who shaped empires to the contemporary women making strides in various fields, Iranian women embody a unique blend of tradition and modernity. Their contributions to art, literature, science, and social discourse are significant and often underappreciated. The pageants, particularly with the emphasis on educational and professional achievements like Mahsa Mohiti Asli's, underscore a commitment to showcasing a holistic view of womanhood. This focus on intellect and character, alongside grace and poise, reflects a deeper cultural appreciation for well-rounded individuals who contribute meaningfully to society. This strength and resilience, especially in the face of adversity, is another profound reason why I miss Iran and its remarkable people.

Why I Miss Iran: More Than Just a Place

In essence, my longing for Iran is a longing for a piece of myself. It's a yearning for the familiar comfort of its ancient streets, the taste of its unique cuisine, the sound of its lyrical language, and the warmth of its people. It's a connection to a heritage that has shaped my identity and continues to inspire me. While I may be physically distant, the memories, the cultural pride, and the emotional resonance of Iran remain deeply embedded within me. It’s a feeling that transcends geographical boundaries, reminding me that home is not just where you live, but where your heart finds its deepest roots.

This profound connection to Iran is a source of strength

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